Thursday, November 29, 2012

Making Babies...

So I have been thinking about making a post about this for awhile, and I just decided the time was right.  I like to think that y'all hang around because you care what is going on in my life, and this is one of the big things right now.  I have made a post vaguely talking about it, but I wanted to get a little bit deeper into the topic.

The hubby and I are trying to have a bay bay.  We have been trying for almost a year now, and things are just not going as planned.  We tried so hard the first three years we were together to not have kids, so we thought it was going to be a piece of cake when we finally started trying.  Nope.

 It is just so frustrating because as a woman you are expected to be a fertile machine. and it just seems like I am deficient in that area.  I have been told over and over "when the time is right it will happen" or "relax and just let it happen"  I am tired of hearing this bull!  I have relaxed and I have given it time.  I want some babies!  So I have made a fertility appointment *something I never thought I would have to do* for the end of the month.  Hopefully we can find out about what's going on.

I know that there are so many woman my age struggling with infertility, and I know how it feels now.  It get really frustrating when every other day you see people on Facebook talking about being pregnant with their second or third child, and you are just praying that one day you will be blessed with one.  I have not come to terms with this I still get pissed frustrated when people my age or younger announce they are pregnant again.  So I will now get off my soapbox and move on to another topic!
                                   

I have won a co-host spot on one of my favorite link-ups Sunday's Raising Imperfection!  The wonderful ladies that host this every week are Lanaya @ Raising Reagan and Leslie @ Violet Imperfection!   So lovelies hop over to their sites and check them out also join up on Sunday.  I should have a linky on my post either Saturday night or early Sunday morning!                              
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20 comments:

  1. hello, i found your blog from another blog. congrats on the baby making and yes, it can be frustrating! my friend tried for years and do you know what did the trick? not stressing about it. i think she and her hubs went on vacation and didn't even think about babies and bam! when she came home, she found out she was pregnant. go figure!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by love! I think I might have to ask my husband for a get away for my birthday! Congrats to your friend.

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  2. Now following! Don't get discouraged. It took me a year and before that I had a miscarriage...but I did end up having a healthy baby boy. We are now trying for our second, but it has already been four months...so I know that when you are ready but your body isn't how frustrating that can be. Just hang in there! Also, not sure if it works, but it might have for me, but I ate yogurt a few times a day which is supposed to increase fertility. I hope it does!

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    1. Awe congrats and thanks for the sweet words! I will have to try the yogurt trick. Thanks for stopping by.

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  3. New Follower here! I know how frustrating it can be! We tried for over a year and I finally went to a fertility appointment, had a few tests a would you know the next month we got pregnant. Hang in there :)

    www.littlegems3.blogspot.com

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    1. Thanks for the follow! Wow, that is such a blessing! I hope it works like that for us! Thanks for the encouraging words!

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  4. I can't speak on the issue so I would never presume to tell you anything that I can't relate to.
    BUT...I can say that you will make an awesome mama!! Because you want it that bad!

    Thank you so much for being our amazing co-host for this week's Raising Imperfection.

    Lanaya
    www.raising-reagan.com

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    1. I am thrilled to be able to be a part of the blog hop and thank you for your sweet words they made my day!

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  5. What a heartfelt post. While I haven't struggled with infertility, we did lose our first baby to a miscarriage. It was devastating. When that happened, it just "seemed" like everyone else I knew was getting pregnant and I saw a million pregnant ladies while out shopping or walking to work. It was so hard. So I know a little bit about how you are feeling. I hope the best for you and that you and your hubby will ultimately end up with a beautiful baby in the near future.

    Thanks for co-hosting...new follower here :)
    http://nuggetonabudget.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you for such a sweet comment, and sharing your experience with me! Also thanks for following!

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  6. Thank you for sharing from the heart. Blogging this way really opens up the support that is available thru this wonderful community of bloggers.

    I hope that thru your struggles, you will find comfort in the support here in this community and that you will ultimately have a wonderful pregnancy and bundle of joy.

    I'm a new follower from the blog hop - thank you for co-hosting.

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    1. Awe, you just made me smile. Blogging started as a way for me to connect to others, and through these last couple of months I have met so many wonderful lovely people. Thanks for following!

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  7. stopping by from tiffani goff at home....
    I have some advice for you that has worked for a few couples we know. My hubby devised this theory and you may think it is silly but try it.

    Have sex with your husband every other day. Don't worry about the ovulation schedule, have fun, stop stressing and just enjoy getting some "action" every other day. Hoping my some miracle it works for you because it has worked for a few people he has told about his theory.....

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    1. OK, now I have to say that sounds pretty fun! Thanks for the advise and the follow!

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  8. Good luck with the appointment, I hope all goes well and you have good baby news soon. Lots of good vibes being sent your way from your readers. :)

    Visiting from the Raising Imperfection Hop & I'm your latest follower.

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    1. Thank you darling! And welcome to my crazy little world!

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  9. What is always frustrating to me is the people that get pregnant at the drop of a hat that obviously don't need or want children. You know who I'm talking about. It's not fair!

    I personally have not been in your situation, but I know many others who have been. A good thing to do, and maybe you have done this, is just to make sure you don't have any underlying conditions that might hinder the process. Get checked in and out by your doctor, sort of speak! And of course, I know that's hard to do, but just try not to think about it. I think it's kind of like when you give up on guys then THE ONE comes around. ;-)

    I'll be following along, keep us updated!

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    1. I do know and I think that those situations make me feel the worst! And on the underlying conditions, I am hoping there are none, but I understand they may be there. I made the appointment for a full work up! I am dreading all the needles, but I will be glad to know the results. Thanks for following!

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  10. I totally feel you. We're going on two years of TTC (including a husterical pregnancy) with no end in sight (thank you, irregular, anovulatory cycles!), and it's definitely really, really frustrating, especially when everyone else seems to constantly be pregnant. For me, it's easier to deal with now, but from about the 1 year-1 1/2 year mark, it was harder than it had ever been. I know that some day I'll be a mom, even if it's taking WAY longer than I anticipated. Don't give up hope! Find a strong support system. And major kudos for talking about your struggle -- infertility needs to stop being a dirty word.

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    1. Thank you so much for commenting. I really needed to hear that! I am so sorry for your loss, but glad to hear that y'all are still trying. Infertility is such a hush hush topic and I really just want people to know about it and not be ashamed to share, because we all need someone to talk to and a shoulder to cry on sometimes,

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